Goodbye My 1st Fur-baby

Bailey Tillie Hoff 01/18/2004 – 05/19/2021 For 17 years and 4 months, I had the bossiest, independent and loving Shih Tzu ever. Bailey Tillie Hoff came into my life when I met her owners at a gas station selling her. My friend was buying one of her litter mates and they were desperately wanting to […]

Three Things

When I think of the future, there are three things that I am afraid of: Not finding love again Finding love again and loving more than the other person Watching someone die again While I don’t dwell on these things, they are the three things that can creep into my head. And I can’t do […]

Standing On The Diving Board

Do I dive in again? Test the waters, see what the life of dating is like again? I’m scared. I’m nervous. Actually, I am terrified. How do I do this? How do you figure out how to meet people and actually date when you haven’t dated since you were 22.  I haven’t dated anyone since […]

55 Days and an Eternity to go ….

It has been 55 days since Don passed away.  I promise you that I am not mentally keeping a daily count of the days, but I do look it up from time to time.  I mainly wanted to see how many days it has been since my life changed forever. It’s been a weird 55 […]

I Have a Shovel

3 weeks ago my husband had a shovel and everything in the garage was his. Now, I have a shovel and just that alone is so overwhelming to me. I don’t know why I never considered the shovel or any of the power tools mine, but now I have shovels and hoes and work gloves […]